Friday, January 15, 2010

good internet choices

in complete contradiction to the previous post, in feb 2003 i had a great experience with a guy off the net. i started chatting to this guy from melbourne, a wonderful australian city . the relationship developed very quickly and within a week we were calling each other all day every day, we just got along so well. he was totally in the closet, and completely inexperienced with guys, and only just admitting to himself he was gay. i was in the new position of being someone with a little more experience for a change, and able to help him with his issues. after an intense 3 weeks of constant chatting online & on the phone, we decided we just had to meet. it was one of the craziest things ive ever done, i hopped on a plane just days later to travel halfway across australia to meet a guy who i didnt even know what he looked like. he met me at the airport. i was pleasantly surprised, he was quite good looking. he clearly liked me too, because within an hour of checking into my hotel , we were going at it like rabbits. i can still remember, we had sex 11 times in 3 days before i had to fly back home. when we wernt having sex, we also had a lot of fun together, we had a lot in common, like me he loved his sports, gambling and beer. we agreed tho that after i left that we would just stay friends, we both had new worlds to explore and wernt ready for anything serious, especially long distance. we stayed in contact for a long time, and a few months later he successfully came out to all his family and friends. he did the whole slut phase and explored his sexuality, and eventually got a serious boyfriend. last time i heard from him a couple of years ago, he was very happy and settled down. ive never regretting jumping on that plane.

2 comments:

  1. i have found myself reflecting on many of my experiences in the past few years as I've been reading your posts.

    I definitely agree that sometimes in life- you just have to hop on the plane- as crazy as it may sound to most people.

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  2. Glad you met a nice guy for a change and that he has a better life know and you two are still friends

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